My Opinion on Sex Toys

sex-toys-6361As an erotic author, people will often ask me my thoughts regarding sex toys. Personally, I am all for it. Whatever it takes to get couple in the mood is important to pay attention to and if that is a vibrating dildo, more power to you!

I have including sex toys into my stories quite often as I think it’s relatable for many people. The sex toy business is booming and as a writer it’s my job to stay relevant. I think my best erotic stories are those my fans can relate to and since so many of them use sex toys, it’s important I write about it.

Now, if you know anything about me, you know I like to do my research! So obviously it would be a lie if I told you I didn’t use sex toys myself. Obviously, I can’t speak much for male sex toys as I have personally being able to review the fleshlight as I don’t quite have the right parts to do so! However, I have done my research and it’s amazing how many men are turning to fleshlights, tenga eggs and the like!

What I can tell you about however are all the amazing toys us women have to fool around with. We have vibrators in all different shapes and sizes including little tiny clit vibrators and huge vibrators for those who like it a little bigger. Recently, I have been exploring anal play more and more. I’ve always found anal sex to be a bit painful which is why I am trying to become a little bit more comfortable with anal related toys.

The options seem endless in the anal toy department. Everything from anal beads, to butt plug! Since I am trying to warm myself up, I started with a teeny weenie butt plug and have recently moved to something a little bit bigger. Baby steps right!

I would love to hear more about your favorite types of sex toys. Make sure to send me any questions or stories you’d like to hear and I’ll be sure to make it happen. Like I’ve always said, I need your inspiration to write my stories so maybe tell me about a time you introduced a sex toy into your relationship and have been rewarded with amazing results!

Some words of caution when it comes to sex toys however is to not let them dominate your sex life. I know from experience that too much of a good thing can become a problem which is why you want to limit the amount of times you find yourself jacking off into a fleshlight or masturbating with a vibrator. You don’t necessarily want to rely on sex toys to redefine your sexuality but rather enhance it.

I find the best place to buy sex toys is online. Often times I find that traditional retail stores are terribly over-priced and not all that helpful. I like to go into stores to see what might be available or to come up with some idea and then I go online to see if can find something better and cheaper.

Living My Own Stories

Writing Erotic fantasies of my own is one of the best parts of writing erotica. What’s even better than that? Writing the story and then going out and actually doing it. This has happened a few times with my work and it has definitely been some of the most fulfilling sexual moments of my entire life. I recall each experience vividly because I have now both written it and experienced it! It’s something I continue to do to this day. I bet by this point you’re just itchin’ to hear a story aren’t you?

About 3 or 4 years ago I wrote a steamy erotic short story titled, “Room for Two”. Although the title sounds fairy legitimate, what I meant by “Room for Two,” was there was room inside me for two. It was something I had never experienced before being with two different guys at the same time and I was super keen to find out what it was all about. My story was fairly simple; my newest fling and I went out for drinks with his friends and I began to play footsies under the table with one of his buddies. Clearly, he didn’t know what I was doing but when I mouthed “Want to f*** me?” he got the idea pretty quickly.

I wasn’t sure how my new fling felt about this potential threesome with his best friend but I didn’t care. I wanted and I wanted it bad. That is one thing you’ll learn about me through my blog. If there is something I want, I don’t stop until I get it. In this case, it was both my new boyfriend and his friends c***s at the same time.

Well since I had written this steamy story for all of my fans, and it turned me on so much writing about it I just had to have it for myself. I went through with it the very same way I wrote about in my story; drinks with friends, approach my boyfriends’ friend. Next thing I knew I was in a room for three which included my boyfriend, his friend and me all naked in bed together!

I have to say, I was a little bit nervous about dealing with so much man, but was it ever a great time. The feeling of four big hands on me will be nothing I soon forget. And of course, two big hard c***s is hard to forget too.

I’d love to hear a fantasy of yours! Why don’t you submit your ideas to me and I will see about turning your idea into a full-fledged erotic piece. And then the next step? We act it out! How much fun does that sound? Don’t keep me waiting too long as I always find fan submissions to be the most interesting. You have to remember, I am just one lonely girl so I need ideas from everyone to keep writing. Be in touch soon and remember; it doesn’t hurt to get dirty!