As an erotic author, people will often ask me my thoughts regarding sex toys. Personally, I am all for it. Whatever it takes to get couple in the mood is important to pay attention to and if that is a vibrating dildo, more power to you!
I have including sex toys into my stories quite often as I think it’s relatable for many people. The sex toy business is booming and as a writer it’s my job to stay relevant. I think my best erotic stories are those my fans can relate to and since so many of them use sex toys, it’s important I write about it.
Now, if you know anything about me, you know I like to do my research! So obviously it would be a lie if I told you I didn’t use sex toys myself. Obviously, I can’t speak much for male sex toys as I have personally being able to review the fleshlight as I don’t quite have the right parts to do so! However, I have done my research and it’s amazing how many men are turning to fleshlights, tenga eggs and the like!
What I can tell you about however are all the amazing toys us women have to fool around with. We have vibrators in all different shapes and sizes including little tiny clit vibrators and huge vibrators for those who like it a little bigger. Recently, I have been exploring anal play more and more. I’ve always found anal sex to be a bit painful which is why I am trying to become a little bit more comfortable with anal related toys.
The options seem endless in the anal toy department. Everything from anal beads, to butt plug! Since I am trying to warm myself up, I started with a teeny weenie butt plug and have recently moved to something a little bit bigger. Baby steps right!
I would love to hear more about your favorite types of sex toys. Make sure to send me any questions or stories you’d like to hear and I’ll be sure to make it happen. Like I’ve always said, I need your inspiration to write my stories so maybe tell me about a time you introduced a sex toy into your relationship and have been rewarded with amazing results!
Some words of caution when it comes to sex toys however is to not let them dominate your sex life. I know from experience that too much of a good thing can become a problem which is why you want to limit the amount of times you find yourself jacking off into a fleshlight or masturbating with a vibrator. You don’t necessarily want to rely on sex toys to redefine your sexuality but rather enhance it.
I find the best place to buy sex toys is online. Often times I find that traditional retail stores are terribly over-priced and not all that helpful. I like to go into stores to see what might be available or to come up with some idea and then I go online to see if can find something better and cheaper.